Living in Toronto, the most multicultural city in the world, I get to observe many interesting racial phenomenons.
I have observed that the vast majority of white girls who prefer black guys over white guys are recent immigrants from Southern and Eastern Europe, or Hispanic countries (as well as Jewish girls). Almost always, they have distinct accents that refrlect their recent immigration and interaction with mostly non-Canadians who speak English as a second language. They may be of Russian, Italian, Yugoslavian, Mexican, South American or Portuguese descent. There are very few people immigrating from Western Europe nowadays.
The fathers of these girls are often obnoxious, uncultured men who also happen to be highly racist. Although these fathers hate black people outwardly, they also exhibit many of the obnoxious, and "virile" qualities that young black men possess. The daughters are annoyed by their fathers obnoxiousness, but subconsciously admire the confidence and self-assurance.
Unfortunately for us, the average white youth is overly polite and cultured, which sometimes translates to a lack of confidence and being afraid to do things like speak your mind, or go for a girl.
In upper class society, most white girls date almost exclusively within their own culture. These girls often grew up in families where racism is not promoted but interracialism is not encouraged either. Most of these girls avoid black guys sexually. At worst, they will go out with a "whitewashed" black guy who is relatively well-mannered and polite (of which there are many in Canada compared to the United States). In general, they avoid typical black male behaviour. However, when it comes to "whitewashed" blacks, many cultured white girls actually prefer a black man with "class" over a white man. In my observation, these girls deem these men to be a perfect balance between having good manners but also being black which automatically classifies him as being "manly" or "sexy" in the eyes of many brainwashed girls. Because of their color-blind upbringing, girls see nothing wrong with a polite black guy, and in fact see it as a bonus because of its rarity.
Uncultured "nigg3rs" are left to "hook up" with trashy immigrant girls or Jewish girls who are considered whores by everyone, as well as black girls.
Since my initial post a year and a half ago (at age 16), I have seen and experienced many different things. One thing that has brought me more success has been a careless attitude about talking to girls that all "attractive" men possess, as well as a large number of black males. After all, she is just a girl. Most men innately look down on "girly behaviour", and boys who exhibit this are ridiculed. So if we look down on female attitudes, why are some men scared of females? I am not a sexist but when I am having self doubts about talking to a girl I just remind myself that I'm a male, and she is a female. I am more innately intimidating than a girl, so why should I be scared? If you approach a girl with confidence and act like you deserve to get her, and truly believe it, you most likely will. Its jsut something in your attitude that reflects in your actions.
Black men are consistently worshipped by "whitey". It is no surprise that they feel a sense of entitlement when it comes to our women. If we treat him like a superior, will he not feel entitled to the best women? Is that not natural?
We as whites need to stand up for ourselves, even if it means showing traits that nowadays are only admired when they come from blacks, confidence and pride. HAVE PRIDE!!! If anyone puts you down, white or black, male or female, you must defend yourself. It all comes down to pride.
I would say that one of the most attractive traits that women see in men is pride. If we have pride in our culture and in ourselves, we will be taken seriously as people and as a culture. Women take men seriously who take themselves seriously. Not too seriously, but seriously enough to not be somebody else's doormat, even if they happen to be black. If we have pride, we too will feel that sense of entitlement to our women that some black men have. As an athletic white male, I am entitled to an attractive white female, more than any black man despite what the media tells me (including those numerous commercials featuring diversity with a black man and white woman). If we have the attitude that we are better than any black, girls will believe that we are too.
I don't blame girls who look for guys with balls. These girls often have partners who are white, black and hispanic. I resent that they are being taken by men of other races, but I do not blame the girls. It is only natural. Most women feel comfortable in the presence of a confident leader, thats why the quarterback of the Varsity team gets the most girls. If we are gonna take back our women, we need to look in the mirror and be the MEN that our women are looking for. Not to say that we need to emulate the bad things about minorities, but take pride in who we are and what we can do.Edited by: TorontoArgos