There are related but distinct conversations going on here. The dynamic of white women dating minorities is one thing, but that should be separate from our own personal situation.
I agree with Don that the black male/white female thing has peaked, and has maybe even slowly leveled off. I agree that after so many attempts, and a continuous assault like the Windows PC commercial, and others showing whites as inept, most white women STILL would rather choose white men, even if they can't say it publicly.
The white guys that I know typically like white females only, and also Hispanic and Asian. I know very few guys who actually like black women, but yes I have known guys like that and they have given bogus explanations like they less stuck-up and more "wild" under the sheets. Yet, I have heard blacks on the internet claim they like white girls cause they are more "wild," and I've heard white and black guys in person also say this about Hispanic and Asian girls. Too me that's a bunch of garbage and can never be scientifically compared, haha.
When it comes to white girls who exclusively prefer blacks, I have hypothesized the various types that do this. As others have extensively noted, white girls that grow up in lower-middle class to poorer areas that have a lot of minorities can end up that way. That doesn't even mean most of them do, just a higher percentage. I also have a theory that in more liberal Northeastern parts of the country, there's a higher chance even with girls from a good background. This is especially true is Massachusetts, where I've met girls that don't exclusively like blacks, but think it's racist to have racial preferences for dating. So even if they never do date a black man by chance, they would still do it if the opportunity arose.
Another large group of white women who actually prefer black men are girls from broken homes who have a bad relationship with their father. Actually, I think this may be the most important aspect, and why a higher percentage of girls in lower income areas date black men because coincidentally many come from broken homes. If they think negatively about their father (a white man), they can transform those feelings to white men in general. Actually, come to think of it I can not think of any white women I met who really likes their dad ever date or mention dating black men.
Another point that should be noted is that I have personally heard more white women share their distaste for black men, then white guys have said about black women. I have heard many girls, aged 18 to 24, complain about black guys at bars and the harassment they receive from them. Some have said their afraid to say anything for fear of being racist. Conversely, I have seen some white girls I've been hanging with straight up dis black dudes in the club! One group of girls, and these ones were very hot I might add, my friend asked them they ever "did" a black guy. Both girls harshly denied it, saying they have never even kissed a black guy with a disgusted look on their face! Lol.
Now, of course I have talked to white girls that say they like black guys. I always ask them why, and they come up with BS like they are tougher, more athletic, better fighters, etc. I always love when they say that, so I can prove their idiocy by asking them "Do you ever watch UFC? Those are the best fighters in the world and most of them are white!" But those girls are so warped in the head that I won't change them, but at least I can lower their self-esteem a bit, and if enough of these women who date blacks are messed up and have low self esteem, it will not seem like an even less appealing thing to date a black man.
One problem is that even though many white women would not date a black man, there's a lot of support for it. Ironically, I think there's more support for it from men and women who are 35 plus. I know of lot of men that say "it wouldn't matter if my daughter dated or married a black man, as long as he was a good guy." In reality they might not want that, but they feel it necessary to say such things to not be politically incorrect. On the other hand, I know plenty of guys my age that said when they have kids they would NEVER let their daughter date a black guy! I fall into the same category, and would accept whatever consequences that might bring.
To sum things up, I think it's important to shun interracial relationships in the proper setting and time. If it's a school discussion, a good comment to add would be to say every culture should be preserved, so interracial relationships shouldn't be looked at so highly. On the other hand, it is important to look at the other aspect of this conversation, and to do your best with women for your own good, and for the good of others because the better you look, the better white men look as a whole!Edited by: Electric Slide