Ubiquitous Man Hating

[Don Wassall]

This is a sad story about the values American men were raised with and how much of a dead end they've become after 40-plus years of virulent feminism and Cultural Marxism:


<DIV style="COLOR: cyan">I'm writing this to tell you of an old friend of mine, a man I greatly respected and the tale of his life. What makes this man special is the that by all accounts his life, his married life, working life, and family life, was a "success" by the standards laid down by modern society. I'll call him Michael (not is real name) and he was a true blue worker, very intelligent, and raised to provide by two parents who stayed together and raised their son with strict Baptist values.
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<DIV style="COLOR: cyan">He wasn't all that handsome but invested his younger years diligently, pursuing an engineering degree at Duke University back when grade inflation didn't exist (early 1960's). The girls he dated, well, he didn't date much as he was a nerd and being the 60's the girls with the new freedom used that freedom to ride the **** train of football players and players in general. The new age of sexual emancipation left Mike at the station. Years after college Mike met a girl who had gotten her fill of the bad boys, and they started dating. True she was no virgin while Mike was, she'd had several relationships and relations before but she recognized the value of Mike in that he had a new job with an up and coming career track - computers! Misinterpretation of his prior religious teaching ordered him to forgive this girl's past and instead focus only on the future. It was his duty after all.
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<DIV style="COLOR: cyan">He married her and worked, hard. His father worked for the railroad and the company had taken care of him so Mike knew that this was the way to a good life. Work hard, and the company would reward and take care of you. Then the 1970's hit with the Carter recession and all that loyalty and hard work amounted to nothing. Still he tried again, found another job (that forced him to move frequently) and this one wanted even more hours than the prior job. I remember him saying "It's Friday do you know what that means? It's only two more working days until Monday!" and off he'd go. Everyday. For 43 years. He had two children, a boy then a girl, and worked while his wife stayed at home. Later on after the children were out of high school Mikes wife dabbled a little here and there and worked part time occasionally for a convenience store.
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<DIV style="COLOR: cyan">The extra money was nice but not enough so she pecked Mike continuously to make extra money. It was never enough. "Go tell your boss you need more! You should show him your value! A real man would provide for his children!" and on it went. Mike was getting older now, and had always had diabetes, a life long condition he had to treat with regular insulin injections. The shots were painful but he needed them to think straight. Of course there was the time he was laid off in 1980 with no insurance and the daughter needed braces. A real man knows when to put others first after all. And of course when the mother in law needed a new roof, and he really had promised his wife that new washing machine, and oh she needed to go see her mother for Christmas as well and airfare was so expensive. So the medicine(s) waited, more than once.
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<DIV style="COLOR: cyan">His children were boomerang types, his daughter slutted it up with a guy and moved in with him but later on came back home until she was able to snag a younger version of Mike. His son dropped out of college a few times and then came home to be a bum for 2 years after deciding that work was too nerve wracking. Mike would never throw his children out so they stayed for several more years. Several more. Finally when his son hit 28 he found a slut with a child from another guy and got her pregnant. The girl wanted a lavish wedding but his son was only working at a book store and couldn't afford it - no big wedding so it seemed. Mike's wife knew better of course, and argued with him for months about paying for the big day. She'd gotten a lavish wedding (thank you Mike) and didn't Mike know how important a wedding is to his future daughter?
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<DIV style="COLOR: cyan">Yes this was his vacation money, yes after so many years of hard work he was finally going to get to go do something he always wanted (to see the Northern lights in Alaska). Yes he was going to finally get that Harley Davidson and ride up there after 35 years of no vacations at all. BUT This was going to be his daughter according to his wife and his kids HAD to come first.... So the girl got her wedding. Then his real daughter needed help with a house. Her new husband turned out not to be a copy of Mike after all but a thug with a criminal record who had just lost his job. Why did his daughter lie about this guy to Mike? Her wedding was very expensive too. Oh well it was too late now and his daughter did need a place to live and she just found out she was pregnant! He didn't have the money but his wife researched it and 2nd mortgages were so easy to get back then. True, his house after so many years of work was almost paid off but his grandchild needed a real home and there was no way his new son in law could afford it and Mike was told he could now work up to 10 hours more overtime if he wanted. 60 hours wasn't too much of a sacrifice and he'd at least get a leg up on that promotion, maybe.
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<DIV style="COLOR: cyan">Another decade passed and after scrimping and saving and even more hard work the mortgages were paid off. In a rare perfect storm both children (now well into there 30's with kids of their own) didn't need something. The mother in law didn't need a new appliance, or home repair, or another new car being long past her driving years. Yes, now, this was the time. Mike now 64, proudly strode into the Harley dealership and filled out a custom order sheet. In 8 weeks a shiny new Harley would arrive and he would get to ride it. He would finally take a vacation, his first real vacation since college. Sure his wife and kids had gone on many many vacations over the years but he always had stayed behind - to work. Something always came up.
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<DIV style="COLOR: cyan">One time it was that there just wasn't money or neighbors to take care of - of all things - the dogs! 3 Lassa's that Mike never wanted yipping and sh*tting all over the place. Ugh... still at least his wife would get a vacation - she deserved it after all didn't she? There was even that one time (he hoped it was just the one time) where he found out his wife had hooked up with an old boyfriend when she said she was going to visit her mother. He forgave her of course a divorce would have devastated his kids (he knew they were his - or at least he hoped) and of course he'd have lost everything with the divorce laws - besides wasn't he a Christian? Shouldn't he just forgive and forget? What does his pride or even himself matter? He had never cheated on her or even been with another woman - not even once - but that was normal and he knew that she appreciated that didn't she?
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<DIV style="COLOR: cyan">The last big push before new years came at work and Mike was tired. His wife as always spent Christmas and new years with her mother - and he knew this time she really was with her mother â€" she was too old to cheat on him now wasn't she? When she got back he would be free of dog sitting and he would take his new Harley on the road for the first time. Shiny and red, he hadn't even ridden it yet. He read the owner's manual 100 times and knew everything about it, he couldn't wait and it was all he talked about at work! It was brand new and kept in the garage but he stripped the engine and cleaned and oiled everything just to make sure! It was polished, waxed, and hospital clean. All was ready. His first ride on his HIS!! brand new Harley to see the Northern lights. It was the culmination of his life's work and now it was really going to happen. Mike was so excited.

<DIV style="COLOR: cyan">On December 29th his daughter called and left an angry message on the tape machine. She wanted to visit but the snow was blocking the drive-way and she had her daughter and no snow shovel! Why the f**k hadn't Mike shoveled the driveway? He knew she was coming to visit that lazy good for nothing piece of crap. NOTE: the words she used were in reality more caustic than this - I have lightened them considerably.

<DIV style="COLOR: cyan">On January 3rd his son came to visit and found his father cold and lifeless surrounded by a ring of dog sh*t. He'd had a massive stroke, likely from the diabetes, and the paramedics said they thought that he didn't suffer for long - but it was hard to tell. When Mike's wife returned later on she immediately made plans to sell the house. She raged that Mike hadn't left her enough life insurance and no instructions on what to do â€" what a irresponsible man what the hell was he thinking? He should have provided better for her especially since he knew she was too old to work! She was 62!!! Insurance was so expensive for someone in his condition but if he hadn't squandered *their* money on that stupid bike he could have afforded it. Her old boyfriend George was so much more successful â€" oh how she regretted not marrying him! The bike was listed on Ebay that week. "Never ridden Harley - brand new! $17,000 or best offer".
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<DIV style="COLOR: cyan">By every PC measure Mike's life was a success. He worked his whole life for someone else and doubtless made millions for his bosses over the course of his career. He took care of 3 people and two grandchildren that would have been on the dole if not for his efforts, and paid punitive taxes to take care of many more along the way. He never collected a dime of social security or unemployment even when he was laid off - he was just too proud to file. He never took Medicare and he made lots of profit for 2 large banks, 2 colleges, and never once thought of himself. He died cold and alone, surrounded by sh*t, never once having done anything for himself. His epitaph was a bike on Ebay - his life's dream - sold to a dealer for $15,500 - the best offer his widow could get several years ago. She took a cruise with the money. America thanks you Mike. You were a real success, and moreover a blueprint for what we expect a modern man to be. R.I.P.
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<DIV style="COLOR: cyan">http://markymarksthoughts.blogspot.com/2010/07/story-of-mike.htmlEdited by: Don Wassall

 

[white lightning]

What a strong piece of writing and so true my friends. One of the reasons I'm still single. It is very hard to find a good woman these days. Most wives/mothers are just like the kids. We are living in the me generation. It's very sad. Just like the athletes we see play on Sundays. Where have the family values and morals gone can can they ever come back? With the media and many other forces up against us, we are fighting an uphill battle.

To all the members here who have old fashioned girlfriends or wives, hang on to them. They are a rare find these days. I'm not giving up on women but it's very hard to find the type were looking for anymore.

 

[The Hock]

Mike sounds like a real nice guy.

 

[Observer]

Years after college Mike met a girl who had gotten her fill of the bad boys, and they started dating. True she was no virgin while Mike was, she'd had several relationships and relations before but she recognized the value of Mike in that he had a new job with an up and coming career track - computers! Misinterpretation of his prior religious teaching ordered him to forgive this girl's past and instead focus only on the future.

After this choice, much of the rest of the story could almost be predicted.

 

[foobar75]

Don, thanks for posting this story about Mike, following on the heels of that other gem you posted from The Spearhead about "10 Things I'll Teach My Sons About Women". These are extremely valuable pieces and that can serve as eye openers for many men.

Considering the great job this site does in exposing the caste system in sports, as well as topics in other areas such politics, economy, and pop-culture, I think we may have found another important subject to cover here. An outright section (such as Women/Relationships) might be overkill, but perhaps we can start a post in the Happy Hour and it can grow like the World Cup thread to contain a gold mine of information?

I believe more men, young and old, need to be made aware of today's women (especially American/Western women), the marriage trap and its pitfalls, and other relevant topics. Marriage used to be the cornerstone our society up until the 70s, but thanks to feminisim, divorce laws, and corrupt judges/lawyers, it has now become an extremely dangerous proposition for a man. In the event of a divorce, your life can literally be ruined and destroyed, and there's virtually no recourse if you are a man. The family courts make sure of that. And if you happen to beat the odds and stay married, I'd bet most of those would mirror Mike's story.

White Lightning is correct. If you have hit the lottery and landed a good, old-fashioned woman who truly believes in marriage the way it was intended, you should hang on to her by all means. For the rest of us, (and I'm only 32), things don't look very good, unfortunately.

 

[Don Wassall]

Considering the great job this site does in exposing the caste system in sports, as well as topics in other areas such politics, economy, and pop-culture, I think we may have found another important subject to cover here. An outright section (such as Women/Relationships) might be overkill, but perhaps we can start a post in the Happy Hour and it can grow like the World Cup thread to contain a gold mine of information?

I think this thread is serving that purpose already. Others can be started in Happy Hour or this same forum. I asked posters some time back if they wanted to see specific forums added for politics, economics, etc., and the feedback was a resounding "no, keep it the way it is."

Regarding American women, it seems the last ten years in particular they've really gone downhill fast. It's like the little kids now that learn that they can do just about whatever they want because mommy and daddy can't discipline them in a reasonable way and if they try they can snitch them out. Women have learned that bad behavior not only isn't punished, it's rewarded -- by the courts, by the media, and by the government in general. They've given up their femininity and also their love for men. So while we have to focus on the Cultural Marxist poisons that have destroyed society from the top down by design, men also have to get their balls back on an individual basis. Part of that is realizing that men are still being brought up to adhere to 1950s and earlier, pre-feministvalues -- protecting women, putting them on a pedestal, slaving away to provide for them -- when those values are now mostly despised and are in most cases counter-productive for men.

 

[Don Wassall]

Here's another educational article, but it's very long, should be read only when you have an appropriate amount of time to give to it.

The Misandry Bubble

http://www.singularity2050.com/2010/01/the-misandry-bubble.html

 

[Europe]

"Part of that is realizing that men are still being brought up to adhere to 1950s and earlier, pre-feminist values -- protecting women, putting them on a pedestal, slaving away to provide for them -- when those values are now mostly despised and are in most cases counter-productive for men. "

Interesting point. Why be a responsible man when you see these women moving into your own apt building with Section 8's and pay nothing to live there,while you have to go to work everyday. Many times the woman has a boyfriend who has a job, but won't marry her so they can get the free rent. The people who do it the "old fashioned" way get screwed. If you are going to get free housing,then you should live in the projects. I don't want you in my neighborhood.

 

[Colonel_Reb]

Yes, many parents are afraid of their kids and of disciplining them properly, for fear of their kids going to school officials and saying that their parents are beating or abusing them. I know people who this has happened to. Just another reason to keep your kids away from public schools and teach them at home. Instead, most parents are perfectly content to let little holy terror Johnny scream his lungs out because he wants something in a store while they act deaf/oblivious to his tantrum. The kids control the adults. What else would you expect when everything else is upside down?

 

[Highlander]

Here's another educational article, but it's very long, should be read only when you have an appropriate amount of time to give to it.
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<div>The Misandry Bubble</font></div>
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<div>http://www.singularity2050.com/2010/01/the-misandry-bubble.html</div>

It's a great piece of writing and analysis. Highly recommend (should be required reading for every man in America or men anywhere else in the West.) The author is an (East)Indian-American male and he nails it. Excellent insight and perspective. This is the article that led me to The Spearhead web site.
Edited by: Highlander

 

[Highlander]

Good piece on the origins of "Cultural Marxism" and the devastating effects the 19th Amendment have had on Western Civilization (followed by tons of excellent and thoughtful comments, as well):

http://www.the-spearhead.com/2010/09/15/how-female-suffrage-destroyed-western-civilization/

How Female Suffrage Destroyed Western Civilization</font>

by </span>ramzpaul on <abbr title="2010-09-15">September
15, 2010</abbr>



A few weeks ago Google paid homage to the ratification of the 19^th
Amendment to the Constitution. The following tag was on their home page
complete with a little pink checkbox that represented a woman making her choice
at the ballot box.



"Celebrating 90 years since the ratification of the 19th Amendment, guaranteeing
women the right to vote"Â



As a globalist corporation, Google does not "celebrate"Â various
anniversaries based on the whims of some individual webmaster. Such decisions
on what to commemorate on Google's main page are carefully determined based on
cynical political calculations. Either the occasion must be non-controversial
(e.g., Celebrating the 71^st Anniversary of the Wizard of Oz) or
politically correct.



A Short History of Cultural Marxism



"Political correctness"Â is simply the modern slang term for what is properly
known as Cultural Marxism. Cultural Marxism was developed in 1920s Germany at
Frankfurt University. Unlike Revolutionary Marxism which advocated violent
revolution to establish a new society (such as the Soviet Union, China, North
Korea, etc.) Cultural Marxism advocated destroying Western Civilization through
cultural subversion. One of the key concepts spawned from the Frankfurt school
was called Critical Theory. The Critical Theory ideology that was developed in
the 1930s was responsible for many of the "politically correct"Â memes we hear
today, such that sex (gender) is a social construct.



The architects of Cultural Marxism were expelled from Germany in the 1930s
once the National Socialists (Nazis) gained power. These refugees found new
homes primarily in America and England. When World War 2 ended, the Cultural
Marxist ideology soon metastasized quickly across American and English
universities.



So while it is popular to imagine that all these radical cultural changes
(such as feminism) started with the hippies and beatniks in the 1960s, the
roots actually extend back to 1920s Germany and 19^th century
Marxism.



Over the past 50 years, Cultural Marxism has been wildly successful in the
West and it is now the de facto ideology for the establishment. As was the case
in the Soviet Union, everyone knows what thoughts are politically acceptable
and what thoughts are heretical. Global corporations such as Google are savvy
enough to "celebrate"Â the proper political ideas.



For example, while Google is proud to celebrate the 19^th
Amendment with a cute pink checkbox, I doubt Google would celebrate the 2^nd
Amendment with an illustration of a White Man holding a rifle. And all of us
who were raised under Cultural Marxism instinctively know why this is the case.



The 19^th Amendment



<ins>The right for women to vote now seems as American as
All-You-Can-Eat buffets and Wal-Mart. Try suggesting to a typical God fearing,
flag waving, Republican and Tea Party conservative that giving the vote to
women was a bad idea, and watch him recoil in horror like a vampire looking at
a cross. To even think of such a notion is anathema and un-American. After all,
our brave troops are fighting the evil Muslims in the Middle-East to protect
our right to vote!</ins></span>



<ins>And yet, for most of America's history the vast
majority of men (and women) were opposed to women's suffrage. So were George
Washington, Thomas Jefferson, Abraham Lincoln all secret women haters with
small penises? Or might they have had another reason to oppose female suffrage?</ins></span>



<ins>The 19^th Century Argument Against
Suffrage</ins></span><ins></ins></span>



<ins>Most of the arguments against female suffrage have
now gone down the memory hole. School children are now taught that suffrage was
inevitable and the people who opposed suffrage in the prior generations were
simply backwards and ignorant. Because it is obviously axiomatic that female suffrage
is a good thing. To even debate the subject would be crazy! As such, historical
writings against suffrage are ignored and buried.</ins></span>



<ins>However, extracted from the depths of time is an
essay written by a woman who was opposed to suffrage. This essay detailed the
logical reasons why female suffrage would harm America.</ins></span>



<ins>Thoughts on Female Suffrage</ins></span>



<ins>By Madeline Dahlgren, 1871</ins></span>





<ins>"We acknowledge no inferiority to men. We claim
to have no less ability to perform the duty God has imposed upon us, than they
[men] have to perform those imposed upon them. We believe that God has wisely
and well adapted each sex to the proper performance of the duties of each. We
believe our trusts to be as important and sacred as any that exist.</ins></span>



<ins>It is our fathers, brothers, husbands and sons
who represent us at the ballot-box. Our fathers and husbands love us. Our sons
are what we make them. We are content that they represent us in the corn-field,
the battle-field and the ballot-box, and we them in the school-room, at the
fireside, and at the cradle; believing our representation, even at the
ballot-box, to be thus more full and impartial that it could possibly be were
all women allowed to vote."Â </ins></span><ins></ins></span>



<ins>Notice that it was assumed that men and women have
different biological natures and, as such, God has given men and women
different responsibilities. The notion that sex is just a social construct
would have been considered to be absurd. Also notice the frequent references to
religion. Prior to the Cultural Marxist revolution (Cultural Marxism abhors
Christianity) Christian ideals were appealed to in an unapologetic manner.</ins></span>



<ins>The basic argument against female suffrage was that
women were represented by their husbands, fathers and sons at the ballot-box.
The essay further argues that as mothers raised their sons (this was before
mothers warehoused their children in daycare to pursue their corporate careers)
women actually fundamentally shaped the character of men, and hence, the
direction of America. As such, women had a powerful voice and they were
represented.</ins></span>



<ins>Later in the essay, Dahlgren predicted that female
suffrage would create competition between men and women which would create an
antagonism. Instead of a family standing in unity, suffrage would divide the
house. Such division would create discord into the family and weaken the
marriage tie. Dahlgren predicted that divorce would become common if women were
given the vote.</ins></span>



<ins>Dahlgren writes:</ins></span>



<ins>"We hold that the new status will prove to be
the worst kind of communism. The relations between the sexes, so carefully
guarded by religion and by parents, by law and by society, will become common
and therefore corrupt. The family, the foundation of the State, will disappear.
The mothers, sisters and daughters of our glorious past will exist no more and
the female gender will vanish into epicene. "</ins></span>



<ins>As a contemporary of Marx, Dahlgren correctly
identified that the push for female suffrage was Marxist in origin. Fifty years
later the Cultural Marxists implicitly agreed with Dahlgren that the best way
to destroy Western Civilization (aka Christendom) was to undermine the family.
And the seeds that were planted in the 19^th amendment paved the way
for the spawning of what would be known as feminism.</ins></span>



<ins>The people opposed to female suffrage proved to be
right beyond their wildest predictions. As Google was celebrating the 19^th
amendment, a British newspaper detailed the boasting of a 26 year old woman who
claims to have had sex with 5000 different men. If Madeline Dahlgren were alive today, I am sure
she would have understood the connection between female suffrage in the West
and the decline of civilization.</ins></span>



<ins>Single mothers, rampant divorce, abortion and
falling birth rates are part of the cancer that is destroying what is left of
Western Civilization. But very few people (even conservatives) fail to realize
that the inception of this cancer can be found in the passage of the 19^th
amendment.</ins></span>





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Edited by: Highlander

 

[Don Wassall]

Yeh, that's yet another excellent article on The Spearhead. Another good recent one was "When Is It OK to Punch Your Wife": http://www.the-spearhead.com/2010/09/14/when-is-it-ok-to-punch-your-wife/



I was reminded of that article (which is actually about how men can't only not hit a woman, they can't even use self-defense against a violent female) when I saw a commercialpromoting the new series "Hawaii 5-0," which is a remake of a good show from 40 years ago. The two male stars of the show were shown, then the female asian lead -- who was shown slugging a man in the face as hard as she could. Charming. Anyone who still thinks the feministarm of Cultural Marxismis about "equality" and not about the complete and opendomination of men is hopelessly ignorant or stupid.

 

[white lightning]

Excellent article. Thank you for posting it. I enjoyed it very much. The Feminazis have taken over. Every day it is becoming more of a womens world. Men are just weak mentally and physically these days. They are also too emotional.

 

[foobar75]

This is very informative and insightful. I just wish more sheeple could wake-up as realize what's going on around them.

Unfortunately, most men (and most people) in America are either too dumb, too ignorant, or simply too indifferent about political correctness and diversity/multiculturalism, and how these poisonous idealogies have destroyed the country. It will only get worse, I'm afraid. The level of indoctrination and brainwashing is so strong and pervasive that you cannot get away from it. It's everywhere, beginning with 1st grade in elementary school, middle/high school, college, the workplace, it's ever-present. The rest is taken care of by the media and entertainment complex, so there's nowhere to go.

I really wonder how the heck some of us have escaped it all and know the truth. Speaking for myself, no one really told me anything, it's as if I've always known that cultural marxism is pure evil. And sites like CF have only helped open my eyes further. I wish more people could be like us, but I can't imagine how. Just watching those two MNF games back-to-back, seeing basically a sea of DWFs mindlessly spending their $$ and cheering their black heroes, I don't think there's much hope.

 

[SuperSpeed23]

Great article, speaks the truth and thats what we want. I always hated feminists, even before i knew about caste football. As they say, feminists suck, but there not very good at it.

 

[Thrashen]

Even "Anti-Feminist"Â￾ terms such as "FemiNazi"Â￾ are ripe with Cultural Marxism and are overtly offensive towards white males. Feminism can't even be mocked without degrading white men. In this case, it's the most clichéd, worn out group of whipping boys in the history of this planet.

I've always been fascinated by the meticulous usage of "Cultural Marxist Approved"Â￾ vernacular within the majority of my daily conversations with fellow humans. I always make sure to let them know"¦it's embarrassing, because most of them are "men"Â￾ twice my age. You can't fix something that has been poisoned to death so long ago.

The establishment thinks they're clever...but a few brain cells can decipher the master script with ease.

 

[Highlander]

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took his mobile phone when he tried to call for help</font>
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By Nick Fa_gge

Last updated at 8:42 AM on 16th September 2010

A nurse seized a dying man's mobile phone after he called a hospital
switchboard for help when she ignored his plea for a glass of water.


Staff
nurse Caroline Lowe took the phone and asked Derek Sauter, 60, ‘what
lies have you been telling?', a tribunal heard yesterday.


The
53-year-old was facing being struck off the nursing register over Mr
Sauter's ordeal in his final hours suffering from a terminal lung
disease at Queen Mary's Hospital, Sidcup, Kent.
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Loss: Healthcare Commission's administrator,
Derek Sauter, died in an NHS hospital after head ward nurse Caroline
Lowe failed to monitor his rapidly deteriorating condition</div><div>

Assurances: Mr Sauter's widow Susan, was
originally given assurances that he would be treated quickly</div>


Mr Sauter, a retired administrator with NHS watchdog the Healthcare
Commission, died the day after the nurse refused him water.




His widow, Susan, told the Nursing and Midwifery Council how her
husband made the call from his bed as he gasped for air.




She said: ‘At 21.00 I called and heard him asking for water and
being told he would have to wait for the [nursing] handover. It showed
an uncaring attitude.

‘At 23.04 he called me. He said he was being
ignored. At 23.39 he called again and said he himself had called the
doctor.




‘I overheard someone say: ‘What lies have you been telling?' and the
line went dead. I called and got no answer on the mobile or the ward. I
felt it had been confiscated.'




Mr Sauter had been admitted with a chest infection on June 27, 2008.
Mrs Sauter was given assurances ‘that my husband should be home in two
or three days after having received a course of antibiotics', the NMC's
conduct and competence committee heard.




Lowe, in charge on the night shift, failed to notify Mrs Sauter when
he deteriorated and only called her after he had died from pneumonia,
shortly after 7am, she said.


‘At 06.36 he sounded breathless
and
distressed. I told him to immediately buzz the nurses and I would make
my way there.




‘I missed a call at 07.29 from the hospital. One of the nurses said
he had taken a turn for the worst.'




Once at hospital Mrs Sauter learned her husband of 41 years had
died. Lowe showed ‘no sympathy at all' and said her husband's
distressed call to the doctor ‘could be seen as harassment', Mrs Sauter
said. ‘I was very upset and hurt by this â€" I had just been told my
husband had died unexpectedly.'




Earlier the panel heard how Mr Sauter had apologised to the nursing
staff, as he lay dying, about his unruly behaviour the night before.


<div> </div><div>

No care: Caroline Lowe pictured outside her home</div>


It was also told how he was taken off monitoring equipment and moved
to a side room because he was ‘disturbing other patients'. Lowe failed
to carry out basic checks or call a doctor after being alerted his
oxygen levels had plummeted.




Adrianna McDonnell, for the NMC, said: ‘This was a gentle, kind and
caring man who found it necessary in the last hours of his life to say
sorry, something we have heard Miss Lowe was never able to do.'




Yesterday the panel ruled that Lowe, of Theydon Bois, Essex, ‘failed
to respect the dignity' of Mr Sauter, left him to die alone and
responded inappropriately to his distress.




But her actions did not contribute to his death, it added. It will
decide today whether to strike her off.




Lowe, who did not appear, stated in a letter she had resigned and did
not intend to return to nursing.

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Man, there are some ugly b*tches in England. You'd think that after all that men, particularly White men, have done for "their" women...creating a "civilized" modern society with comforts and conveniences both large and small that they mostly enjoy, women's "suffrage", equal and even superior rights, blah, blah, blah that they'd treat us with a little more deference. It obviously hasn't.
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[Don Wassall]

Liberal, Jewish feminist attempts to propose a more "conservative" form of feminism. Read the comments afterwards; they just destroy her. Men are finally waking up to all forms of the Cultural Marxist enemy.

The Third Wave Manifesto

http://www.the-spearhead.com/2010/09/21/the-third-wave-manifesto/

 

[Highlander]

Liberal, Jewish feminist attempts to propose a more "conservative" form of feminism. Read the comments afterwards; they just destroy her. Men are finally waking up to all forms of the Cultural Marxist enemy.
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She was utterly savaged, like starving and angry wolves happening upon fresh kill.

Yes, I agree, more and more men are (finally) waking up from the "Stockholm Syndrome" they've been under for the past 30-40 years...especially in the last 15-20 years as it (feminism) became completely over-the-top and outright disgusting...probably why so many 20-something females supposedly no longer consider themselves "feminists" (which is easy to say now, now that you have the entire government apparatus on your side, codifying your every perceived slight or whim into law.)






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[Ladyfiaran]

This is an interesting topic, hope you don't mind my replying. I'm a woman and I have to say I'm pretty disgusted by feminism, if you can, don't read Feministe or Feminsting or Pandagon, run by some nasty feminist harpies, I read it so you don't have to

But in all honesty, and I don't mean this in a trollish way, but what you think about women who watch sports or listen to metal? I've been a Yankee fan since I was a kid and a metal head since high school, that's why I don't get along with too many girl and have more male friends, what's your take on that?

 

[GWTJ]

But in all honesty, and I don't mean this in a trollish way, but what you think about women who watch sports or listen to metal? I've been a Yankee fan since I was a kid and a metal head since high school, that's why I don't get along with too many girl and have more male friends, what's your take on that?

Welcome to our site Ladyfiaran! My take on women who like hanging with guys is this:

I have heard that the women who like hanging with men feel there is too much drama among their girlfriends and they don't want to deal with it constantly. Male friends are less complicated, just chilling and having a good time. Nothing wrong with that, right?

 

[Ladyfiaran]

But in all honesty, and I don't mean this in a trollish way, but what you think about women who watch sports or listen to metal? I've been a Yankee fan since I was a kid and a metal head since high school, that's why I don't get along with too many girl and have more male friends, what's your take on that?

Welcome to our site Ladyfiaran! My take on women who like hanging with guys is this:



I have heard that the women who like hanging with men feel there is too much drama among their girlfriends and they don't want to deal with it constantly. Male friends are less complicated, just chilling and having a good time. Nothing wrong with that, right?

Totally agree, dude. I get along a lot better with guys than with girls, my best female friend is from Poland and she can't understand many American girls, too much drama with boyfriends and whatever. And many girls don't like sports or any music that isn't pop or rap crap, then again if I was a dude, me being barely five feet tall, I'd get my ass kicked on a regular basis

 

[whiteathlete33]

But in all honesty, and I don't mean this in a trollish way, but what you think about women who watch sports or listen to metal? I've been a Yankee fan since I was a kid and a metal head since high school, that's why I don't get along with too many girl and have more male friends, what's your take on that?

Welcome to our site Ladyfiaran! My take on women who like hanging with guys is this:



I have heard that the women who like hanging with men feel there is too much drama among their girlfriends and they don't want to deal with it constantly. Male friends are less complicated, just chilling and having a good time. Nothing wrong with that, right?

Totally agree, dude. I get along a lot better with guys than with girls, my best female friend is from Poland and she can't understand many American girls, too much drama with boyfriends and whatever. And many girls don't like sports or any music that isn't pop or rap crap, then again if I was a dude, me being barely five feet tall, I'd get my ass kicked on a regular basis

Hey Ladyfiaran, I'm from Jersey and Polish too.

 

[Ladyfiaran]

Cool, what part? I'm from Hudson County

 

[whiteathlete33]

Cool, what part? I'm from Hudson County

Bergen County, Wallington to be exact. I used to hang out in Jersey City some years ago. Quite a few Polish people down there.