whiteCB said:
Also I want to say that from years' experiences working with a lot of black guys over the years I have one reason as to how they pick up the white chicks. They talk a lotta sh*t!! and AREN'T AFRAID to talk to women! These black guys just don't give a flying fu*k what comes out of their mouth. They just keep runnin and runnin their mouths off to whatever girl will listen. Unfortunately I must say from personal experience I've met way more white guys who were afraid or shy to go and start a conversation with the opposite sex. The bottom line is that the aggressive confident male more than likely always gets the chick. More white guys need to stop being computer geeks and get some game with the ladies. They need to take more chances like the brothers and stop caring if they strike out with the girl or not.
Yeah, some of these black guys at the bar and clubs remind me of my one friend from Canada. This particular friend of mine, I wouldn't call him a close friend because I respect him the least out of my big group of friends, is a complete ladies man. He's by far the best in the group at picking up girls (actually the two nicest guys in the group are horrible picking up girls).
I never got why a girl would be interested in him. He is 110% about himself and very shallow. This kid wouldn't do anything to help a friend if it would hurt him in any way. However, he is very confident and knows how to make himself look like the dominant one in the group (the alpha male). He also knows how to seduce girls or make them feel important. He also is pretty funny and knows how to tell BS stories. He is completely unafraid to walk up to a group of girls, or even a group of girls and guys, at a bar with an opener and start a conversation. I don't know how many times I've seen him get girls numbers that are 5-10 years younger than him and go home with them.
However, this guy is a real ass hole. I was talking with a girl I used to hang with, who he's told me he doesn't like, which isn't surpising because she's one of the nicest people I've ever met. I ended up making friends with her friend, who was average looking, but a real nice girl also and got her number.
I got done talking to them because they left and was saving the girl's number in my phone and he grabs the phone out of my hands and shuts it. I was "very" pissed because I never used to get girls numbers at bars and almost punched him in the face. He then turned the whole thing around and "claimed" he did this the girl I knew isn't part of our group and he can't stand the girl because she gossips about him and that the girl who's number I got was ugly anyway. Not surprisingly the "followers" in the group believed his BS story.
So basically, I've found guys like him (and a lot of young black guys fit into this category; at least the confidence and bullsh*t story telling part) may pick up a lot of girls at the bar, but they aren't classy women. The girls that are interested in him might want a one night stand and figure he'd be good in the sack because he's a hot shot. This guy is a year older than me. He's almost 30 and has never had a good relationship in his life as far as I could tell.
My best friend set me up on a blind date with my current girlfriend and we fell in love. My gf is a real classy and kind hearted girl and doesn't like the bar scene. Even though she's 6 years younger than me she is very mature. And she has told me that she likes most of my friends a lot, but doesn't like my aforementioned friend because "he's shallow, all about himself and thinks he's hot stuff."
Yet my gf dated a black guy for a little over a year starting when she was a sophomore in college. She told me he was actually a real nice guy and picked her up because he was really sociable. But this black guy left her for a hot mullato girl partly because she wasn't ready to marry him and refused to have sex before marriage. So this guys loss is my gain. Or you could say his loss of a white woman is my gain of a white woman, or at least a mostly white woman.
The classy mature girls aren't the ones that are grinding on these black guys at the club. That's why I was so surprised to find out my girl dated a black guy, b/c she doesn't seem like she fits the black guy dating profile at all. But this guy was a "classy" black guy apparently.
Kind of funny right before I left Canada late last summer to move to NJ my hotshot friend told me while we were playing golf "I wish I could find a girl like your girl." This was the first time ever that this guy had "ever" shared anything negative about himself. It was also the first time in my life I actually felt bad for him. I had always lived my life thinking that his life was much better than mine. Well now I guess it's the other way around.
So if you're sick of unclassy girls grinding on the black guys at clubs, don't try to find your girl in a club. This is the kind of girl this hot shot gets. He's almost 30 years old and still is going to the bar (now with less people because his friends are getting engaged and moving on with their lives) and picking up 19 year olds, but he apparently is jealous of his friends now!
Edited by: ToughJ.Riggins