Since we don't have a Father's Day thread, I figured I'd post this here. Its an article linked by James Edwards from Pastor Chuck Baldwin on the need for masculine leadership in the home. By the way, James has released a book entitled "Racism, Schmacism: How Liberals Use The "R" Word To Push The Obama Agenda"
You can order a copy here:
http://www.thepoliticalcesspool.org/book/
Former Presidential Candidate Chuck Baldwin, who has been
a featured guest on The Political Cesspool on numerous occasions, <a href="http://vdare.com/baldwin/100618_fathers_day.htm" target="_blank">has written the
following commentary on Father's Day</a> that we'd like to share with
our audience.
<blockquote>
Father's Day 2010: Masculine Leadership Needed Now More
Than Ever
By Chuck Baldwin
As we approach Father's Day this Sunday, I think it is necessary to
once again draw attention to what has become one of America's greatest
problems: the dearth of masculine leadership in the home.
As everyone universally acknowledges, there are more children being
raised by single mothers today than at any time in our nation's history.
Obviously, divorce is far and away the biggest contributor to this
unfortunate phenomenon. But another factor is that many women are
choosing to have children out of wedlock. And, of course, a small
percentage of single mothers became this way due to the premature deaths
of their husbands. But it is safe to say that the vast majority of
fatherless families are the result of choice, not circumstance.
The ramifications of raising children without a father are taking a
toll, not only on children, but also on society itself. According to
published reports, 63% of teen suicides come from fatherless homes, 90%
of all runaways and homeless children come from fatherless homes, 80% of
rapists come from fatherless homes, 85% of children with behavioral
problems come from fatherless homes, 71% of all high school dropouts
come from fatherless homes, 75% of all adolescent patients in chemical
abuse centers come from fatherless homes, and 85% of all youths in
prison come from fatherless homes. See the following sources for these
(and related) stats:
<a href="http://www.fathermag.com/news/1780-stats.shtml" target="_blank">Fatherless
Homes Breed Violence</a>
<a href="http://fathersforlife.org/divorce/chldrndiv.htm" target="_blank">Children of
Divorce & Separation â€" Statistics</a>
Before militant feminists assail me as a sexist and male chauvinist, I
most certainly understand that there are many examples of women who
have overcome the most adverse circumstances in order to raise fine,
upstanding children.
I not only understand it theoretically, but I also understand it
practically, as a single mother raised my wife, and she turned out
marvelously (as did her older sister and younger brother). My
mother-in-law is among the outstanding success stories of single women
who have overcome some of the most adverse circumstances possible to
successfully raise three young children. All three children are living
prosperous, productive lives, and not one of them is dysfunctional or
criminal.
So, to all the Betty Friedans out there, please spare me your jaded
knee-jerk reactions and mindless accusations!
That there are wonderful exceptions to the rule doesn't change the
fact that the overwhelming majority of evidence conclusively proves that
a family is much better off when Dad is in it. Boys, especially,
require the firm hand of masculine leadership. And that is a fact! And
this brings to mind another problem: many fathers are either chronically
away from home due to work schedules or are deliberately taking a
passive, non-leadership role in the home.
Either way, the result is the same: too many families are
experiencing a dearth of masculine leadership. Let's say it another way:
masculine leadership is needed now more than ever!
Black families have been hit especially hard. According to the Pew
Research Center (PRC), 72% of all black babies born in 2008 were out of
wedlock. [The New Demography of American Motherhood, by Gretchen
Livingston and D'Vera Cohn, May 6, 2010]For all intents and purposes,
the black community is now overwhelmingly a matriarchal society. Is it
any wonder that the crime rate is so high among young black males?
PRC also reported that 53% of all Hispanic babies born in 2008 were
out of wedlock, 29% of white babies born in 2008 were out of wedlock,
and 17% of Asian babies born in 2008 were out of wedlock. Nationwide,
41% of all babies born in 2008 were out of wedlock.
The lack of masculine discipline and leadership in America's homes is
easily visible everywhere you go. Stroll down the aisle of most any
shopping center, eat out at just about any restaurant, and attend
practically any movie theater or church service and one is inundated
with unruly, disrespectful, disobedient, bratty kids. And in almost
every instance, there is either no father anywhere to be found, or if he
is present, he is completely unattached and devoid of leadership
skills.
I recently witnessed one of these out-of-control brats take almost
total control of a restaurant with his incessant temper tantrums, while
the mother hid her face in her hands (literally) and the father buried
his head in a newspaper. Meanwhile, the entire restaurant (customers and
staff) was forced to endure an hour of non-stop belligerence and
blood-curdling screaming. In the meantime, I am still anxiously waiting
for the first restaurant that provides a "brat-free"Â section, similar to
the way they often provide a "smoke-free"Â section: I want to be its
first customer! (Commercial airplanes need such a section, too.)
There are many contributing factors to the decline of masculine
leadership, of course. Society, itself, has mostly feminized our entire
culture by ridiculing and lampooning manhood. Note the television
commercials and programs that denigrate fatherhood. In most of these
commercials and shows, the dad is caricatured as being the resident
nincompoop, a bungling buffoon who barely has enough sense to walk and
chew gum at the same time.
Hollywood is no better. Think about it: when was the last movie you
saw that extolled genuine masculinity? I'm not talking about bulging
muscles, either. I'm talking about moral strength along with the inner
character of virtue and integrity. As far as the social acceptance of
masculinity is concerned, it seems that manhood died out with the black
and white westerns.
Think, too, about how our children are being raised. The vast
majority of them are being raised in a home devoid of strong, masculine
leadership. In our schools (public, private, parochial, or Christian)
the vast majority of teachers are women. The same is true for most
churches. Think about it: unless a young man plays sports, he may grow
from childhood to adulthood without hardly ever being exposed to real
masculine leadership. No wonder more and more boys seem to be confused
about their sexuality.
In addition, our laws increasingly discriminate against fatherhood.
Let a father discipline his children according to Biblical instruction
and there is a very good chance that he will be charged with some sort
of criminal abuse, and have his children taken from his home by the
authorities. Even an unfounded or unsubstantiated accusation against a
father can result in State agencies removing his children from his home.
Furthermore, the father may be subjected to a lifetime of government
harassment by being permanently declared some sort of child abuser; he
may also be forced to forfeit his freedom to purchase a firearm or to
live where he chooses.
I can tell you this: if a bruised butt is evidence of child abuse, I
was abused BIG TIME! My dad took seriously that maxim, "Spare the rod;
spoil the child."Â I can say this, however: I never got a spanking that I
did not deserve; and looking back on it, I thank God for every spanking
I got, because Dad's correction gave me the sense of security, love,
and direction that I desperately needed to make the right choices in
life. I shudder to think where (or what) I would be today had my father
not disciplined me.
I also thank God that I was raised in a better time, when the culture
had not ditched the laws of God and Nature in favor of this stupid,
senseless, asinine political correctness that is rampant today!
I tell you the truth: there are not too many problems that could not
be solved today with an old-fashioned, honest, morally upright,
courageous disciplinarian-father who would lovingly bring up his
children in the fear and admonition of the Lord. And let's all remember
that it is extremely difficult for a man to be this kind of father
without the love and support of his wife. In this regard, the feminist
movement is largely responsible for destroying both the femininity of
our women and the masculinity of our men.
So, while we are rightly concerned and focused on the myriad problems
facing us today, let's remember that America has no greater need than
the need of families to be led and strengthened by good, Godly fathers.
Furthermore, that is something each of us men should aspire to do beyond
anything else. To paraphrase the words of our Lord, "What shall it
profit a father if he shall gain the whole world and lose his own
children?"Â
Therefore, to all of America's outstanding fathers out there who
quietly go about the business of being an example to their children; who
consistently and humbly discipline their children; who instill the
time-tested principles of honor, integrity, and devotion in the hearts
of their children; who bravely accept the responsibility of fatherhood
without grumbling and complaining; and who are willing to put the
security and well-being of their families above their own personal
pursuits:
HAPPY FATHER'S DAY!
Dr. Chuck Baldwin is the pastor of Crossroad Baptist Church
in Pensacola, Florida</blockquote>
