My poor Grandaddy, Im Cracking Brothers

P-NutLane

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Well my brethren, I dont think I can take much more of this ''diversity''.My poor Grandaddy had a spell and actually died 2 months ago. They shocked his chest, and he lived, but he couldnt come home. Well, he is now in a Waco nursing home. Been there 2 weeks now, and the staff at the place has made me nearly go on a rampage! He has trouble feeding himself, and when we go visit him, his food tray will be sitting on his lap, and he will have food on his chest and chin, and will have been that way for hours.
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He says when he ask for help they say ''gimmie a minute'' then never come. His diaper will be soaking wet, and somtimes dirty, and he will be crying in his shame. He was a proud farmer his whole life, and now, because we aint rich, he must depend on overweight black gals to clean him, and feed him, and they dont do it right. I swear I am losing my cool brothers. My momma left her jacket up there the other day, needless to say , it was stolen the next morning when she went up there. Grandaddy said he saw the girl that stole it when she did it. She had enough gall to tell him ''He betta not tell nobody''. When reported to the Black Gal manager, there was nothing that could be done. She said she trust her staff, not these old ''folks that done lost they minds''. YEAH , the bitch told us he was lying. I almost caught a felony in that place, I was so mad
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. It is taking all my faith in the Lord Jesus to keep from giving that place the Oklahoma City treatment.That'd put my poor Grandaddy out of his misery,and the nogood Negros out of everybody elses misery. I swear, I am ready to go to whatever lenghts needed to get these animals out of the civilized world, and back to the bush, where they were ment to stay forever. The beasts get these jobs in the nursing homes, and take smoke breaks all day while them old people buzz them buzzers, and get ignored. I have tears running down my cheek typing this, Im sooooo upset with these COONS.
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I try not to use racial slurs on this site, but your going to have to forgive me , brothers, slurs are all that discribe trash like the averagemodern black female. My Grandaddy loves them Little Debbie coffe cakes, so we took him some. Do you think he got any once we were gone, hell no. The monkies stole them too. I Hate this worthless country. The blacks have spoiled it. Any one who will fight for this Country, as it is now, deserves slow death. The United States of Africa does not deserve brave white warriors fighting for her. Let the beast of the feild go get killed. I am so ready to take the war to these cow piss bathing, rims cost more than the car having, 29 kids having, Wellfare getting, food stamp hustling, cant do a job right, worthless lifeforms!!!! They dont deserve the breath in there lungs. To not hate these so called''people'' is cowerdly, and irresponsible. Thanks for ltting me rant castefootball.
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Love ya brothers. God Bless Mr Don, and all the castefootball brethren.
 

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I feel your pain bro. Don't do anything crazy, it will just put you in more trouble and you will end up living with them in jail! My only suggestion is, and you may not like it, is to take you Grandpa home with you. His diapers should be changed by family and he should be fed and cared for by people who love him. If you give that job to others who are only doing it for money then you will risk him getting poor treatment. The other option is to find a better care facility. If you feel someone else is doing a poor job then do it yourself.
 

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Sounds like you have a good case for a lawsuit. Also local TV stations sometimes do investigations of these. Tell the local TV channel about this situation. There are probably state laws which cover this sort of abuse.


Home might be the best place after all for him. It is good that his last days are spent, as Jax says, with those who love him.


If you choose another facility, I would recommend a Christian nursing nome run by one of the mainstream churches--a facility which has been around a while and which is recommended by friends and neighbors.
 

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Solomon Kane said:
If you choose another facility, I would recommend a Christian nursing nome run by one of the mainstream churches--a facility which has been around a while and which is recommended by friends and neighbors.

I was about to post this. My grandmother is in a Catholic home and all of my visits have pleasantly surprised me by the apparent care shown to the occupants. The clergymen and women are also a reassurance, sort of acting as "quality control", so to speak.

I certainly don't speak for all homes, but there are some out there who actually give a damn.
 

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I remember when my grandmother had a stroke. She was taken to the nearest hospital, which was in Newark, NJ. I don't have to tell anyone here what the complexion of the staff was. My uncle, a man who worked with his hands for a living, showed up at night to find her lying in her own feces. He was livid and got in the face of the nurse. He told her, "She didn't live like that, and she's not going to die like that." A black male(orderly) saw him giving the nurse a tongue lashing and started to move towards my uncle. My uncle looked at him and said, "I'll drop you, too!" The orderly froze. That's really the only way to describe it.

My grandmother died the next day, in a clean bed, with family beside her.

I say, don't be afraid to give them an earful if you feel they deserve it. But also consider the options the other posters suggested.
 

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jaxvid said:
My only suggestion... is to take you Grandpa home with you. His diapers should be changed by family and he should be fed and cared for by people who love him.
That's what we did. Honestly, the best days of my life.

Some nursing facilities provide excellent personal care, but it is still not like home. Besides that, even in these better facilities, it seems like the nutritional programs are stuck in the quackery of the '70's. They are unintentionally starving people (and also facilitating over-medication). Brains, nerves, and heart need salt, cholesterol, and magnesium.
 

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i feel your pain, P-Nut.

my father picked us all up and moved back to where he grew up so we could take care of his mother in her final months. it was incredibly difficult, especially on him and my mom, but it was worth it to keep my Grandma from being put in a home where she wouldn't have been taken care of properly. there were very few reputable nursing homes in the area, and the nice ones were very expensive, more so than we could afford.

the other men have made good suggestions. i implore you to heed their wise advice. above all else, don't do anything rash. the last thing your Grandpa would want is for you to ruin your life.
 

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I wish we could bring him home. Id change is diapers for him, and all else he needs. My uncles say I have enough trouble wth my 1 year old son. I think they dont trust me because I used to run around with the neighborhood **** all the time. Plus they are bolth gone trucking on long hauls all the time, so they couldnt help.
 

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P-Nut, it sounds like the whole family needs to work together to take care of your grandfather. That is something for y'all to decide, but hopefully there can be a way for him to stay at home.
 

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P-NutLane said:
 I wish we could bring him home. Id change is diapers for him, and all else he needs. My uncles say I have enough trouble wth my 1 year old son. I think they dont trust me because I used to run around with the neighborhood **** all the time. Plus they are bolth gone trucking on long hauls all the time, so they couldnt help.

Uncles? His sons? They should see he gets good care!

I hope my kids don't leave me in the care of a bunch of lazy negroes with sh*t in my pants when my time comes. You should have a talk with them and remind them that it's their Daddy that needs them now, they needed him for food on the table and a roof over their heads when they were kids.
 

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I agree with your post jaxvid. My sister works as a hospice nurse and helps people who are taking care of their loved ones at home. Our family had hospice care for my grandfather when he was at home during his last months. I would prefer that over any nursing home. Your loved ones would rather be with you and I'd rather be there to help my loved ones in the comfort of a real home (either theirs or mine), not a bad place like a nursing home that is all too oftenstaffed with people who don't care.
 
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If you are unhappy with the service provided by this nursing home, him out of there. A quarter of the nation's nursing homes have a one star rating. I have never been happy with the quality of the five star hotels.
I am unsure of the limitations and needs of your father, but taking care of him will be easier than spending 5-10 years in the state pen for punching a nursing home attendant. You must get the family together to divide up the chores. Everybody has something to contribute.
Ask around your church or look in a phone book to learn about the resources for the elderly in your community.
 

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Please don't go off man. That is just going to get you into the pokey. It won't help your grandfather.
I wish I could suggest some rational thing to do, but having read the descriptions you've given of your situation, I can't. It seems as though you are really in a corner. But don't paint yourself into a smaller one. You obviously don't deserve this, and you sure as hell don't deserve worse.
 

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Best of luck to your grandfather. Please maintain your composure and have faith.

Give those nurses and the management at that home hell and keep being persistent. If you could get some recordings of conversations and video clips that could help, though I don't know about the legal ramifications.

Good Luck
 

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Yeah, just to add my 2 cents, P-Nut. Time for your family (and even friends) to band together. Take care of your grandfather in his last days. Nursing homes are bad enough but when filled with white-hating blacks it is even worse. If you can't take him home or switch nursing homes, have someone visit him at least once a day. Change him, wash him and feed him each time so he eats and bathes at least daily. Of course the blacks will steal from him so only bring him one snack each day instead of the whole box.

God bless you and our grandfather. God will give the black devils his justice when the time comes.
 

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My condolences P-Nut. Try to stay calm & focus and see to your Grandaddy's best care. Unfortunately, nursing home are largely staffed with incompetent, slothful, slack, half@$$es who only care about drawing a paycheck (& lifting some "extras" for themselves). This is one of the (few) places their needs to be more government oversight...to ensure the proper care (& prevent abuse) of the elderly. This is a sad state indeed.
 
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Thankfully, my father was in a nursing home only about a
month and a half before he died. He was a widower then, having lost his
wife in 1989. He passed away in December 2001. White men aren't
supposed to be victims, but in this case he was a victim of terminal brain
cancer. I was able to visit him at Federal Heights Rehabilitation Center in
Salt Lake City, Utah. Both my parents are dead and now so is Larry H. Miler,
the old owner of the Utah Jazz basketball team. It is better to use a hospice
"die with dignity" program than a nursing home nowadays. Life is short, and
the caste football administrator should see if his dad can stay at home
rather than go into a nursing home.
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Well brothers, the good Lord came and got my Grandaddy today. As sad as I was, Im glad he aint suffering no more.
I want to thank yall for your advice, and kind words fellas.
 

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P-NutLane said:
Well brothers, the good Lord came and got my Grandaddy today. As sad as I was, Im glad he aint suffering no more.
I want to thank yall for your advice, and kind words fellas.
My prayers and condolence to you, and your family, P-NutLane.
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May your Granddaddy rest in peace. My Grandpa died before Christmas last year (throat cancer), so I know how you feel. Best regards again to you and your family.
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A bittersweet end, P-NutLane, but know that you did what you could.
A lot of old folks don't have anyone that would show even a fraction of your concern.
 
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