ToughJ.Riggins
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white lightning said:
Totally agree WL. It's tough finding moral women who care so much more about people than things these days. And it's also tough finding ones who won't do anything other than kiss until they get married. There's actually a Christian rap song I heard on Tangle formally "God Tube" called "baby got book". One of the lines is something like: "with men she's not married, it's herself she just won't disgrace, this girl just won't go past first base'".
Me and my wife will teach our kids, that it's o.k to have fun and kiss when you're growing up and going through H.S and college like my wife did some- and I tried to do more often than I did lol. That is as long as the person you are kissing, has a heart for the underdog and isn't a mean spirited person. Those are the values that me and my wife want to pass to our children!
As a father, I would talk to my son about being that guy who the other guys would respect...
Jock One (QB): "Man our teammate kisses lots of girls, he's a make out king, but he just won't do anything else and he doesn't brag about it, but damn the girls he's kissed brag about him...Is he trying to be a priest or something"...
Jock 2, Tyrone Johnson (RB): "Nahh, man that guy's just legit...He be cooler than the cat's meow & shoulda have lived it up when that expression was bigz! Kid's got self control, much respect! Should also Sayz that he's only a sophomore and should probably be starting uva me at RB already...But I'm a senior and I be black so that $hit aint happenin. Good luck to em' after I move on to "The U" though."
Jock One (QB): "Damn I hear you on that, that kid could be the next Toby Gerhart, I believe that white RBs are no longer extinct, we are seeing a 2nd Gerhart right before our eyes!"
Hey I can dream big of being a father can't I!
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The culture teaches women to embrace the alpha males who have the "bling bling", are cocky enough that they only care about their own feelings and don't care what she thinks (I guess this is because the guy acts like he's better than her and people have the tendency to want to "get with" people they think are better than them when they have low self-esteem) and to expect the man to do almost everything these days. Rap culture and feminism have destroyed western culture!
Me and my wife know how important it is to advise and talk to your children when they are growing up and hope that when we have kids (we plan to once she is secured in her job enough to take a maternity leave and we've bought a house), that they will grow up following the way Christ wants them to live!
I originally wanted to adopt, because I worried about passing down my Bipolar, anxiety, or auditory processing issues, but am now having second thoughts because I know we'll be able to provide a nurturing environment for our children.Edited by: ToughJ.Riggins
