I'll share my experience with you guys. My friend got me into BJJ around 1993 or 1994. I know the first two UFC's had already happened. The manager of a local YMCA was taking lessons and some of the guys from the class would train there a couple of times a week. I started going a lot and was basically fresh meat for them. They did teach me moves though. I got choked out so much my neck and throat hurt for the first 6 months. I decided that I wanted to learn more and started taking classes. My instructor was Craig Kukuk. He now teaches in Idaho. This reminds me, I am going to start a thread about Craig. He is a great American white athlete that needs to be talked about.
Anyway, these classes were very expensive and I spent more time at the YMCA training for free than I did paying for classes. I have 3 children and I didn't have a lot of disposable cash. I finally got good enough, after about 3 years, that I could beat some blue belts. I decided that I knew enough to take care of myself in a confrontation and stopped taking classes.
Several years later, I was almost 40 years old by now, I had a need for BJJ. At my kids ball game an arguement broke out between the president of our league and a fan from another town. This was during the All-Star season and there were lots of teams from different leagues. I would say the hothead that started threatening the president was in his late 20's to early 30's. Our president was in his mid-fifties and a friend of mine.
The hothead was thrown off the complex by the president and was being escorted away by the fathers of the team. He was yelling and cursing the whole time and because the baseball complex had 8 fields quite a crowd had gathered. At least 100 people were watching this play out.
All of a sudden the hothead broke away from his friends and started charging for the president, who by this time had turned around and was talking to other board members. The hothead was about 50 feet away from the president when he started charging. I was off to the side but in between the two of them. I ran directly in the path of the hothead and blocked his path. He tried to push me but I got inside his arms and gave him a Judo type hip throw to bring him down. I made sure that when we landed he hit the ground and I landed on top of him.
I was now on top of him mounted on his side. The most important thing I want to say, and the reason I would recommend BJJ over all other styles, is that at that moment, where I was in the hitting zone and the fight had started, I felt no fear at all. Zero fear. Not even an adrenline rush. It was like another day at the gym. I was totally prepared to deal with this man and felt he had no chance to hurt me at all.
I started to talk to him. I told him to relax and that it was over. I thought he would try to hurt me after he realized he was stuck on the ground but he suddenly started to scream a little like he was in pain. It turned out that he tore his knee up on the fall.
One of the things BJJ teaches you is that in a street fight, when you take the opponent down, make it as brutal as possible. The fight may end before it even starts. That's what happened here. Our fall did happen on cement. I got off of him and he was a different person. He kept apolagizing while some men sat him up in a chair. Now let me tell you what was going through my head during this.
Getting on the inside and establishing good position to bring him down was easy. He was out of control. As the two of us were heading to the ground my thoughts were only on establishing the superior position when we landed. As soon as I had control I resisted the temptation to mount him and apply a move. I was thinking that a lawsuit or criminal charges were a real possibility. I just controlled him without making any agressive moves against him. I'm forever glad that I took that approach because one of the fathers from that other team was a cop. He grabbed me around the waist from behind as I got up and said to me, "Are you crazy, do you want to go to jail?"
So I waited for the police and ambulance to arrive and gave my statement. That is when I actually started to get nervous. Luckily, many witnesses told the police that the hothead was out of control and he got hurt accidentally. I was cleared of any criminal charges but had to wait 2 years before I could relax. The hothead had 2 years to come after me in civil court.
I am very glad that I put in the time to learn BJJ. It allowed me to step in and put a bully(a$$hole) in his place and not be one of the many frozen, scared spectators that day.
I got a lot of respect from a lot of people that day and have never doubted myself since. I have not had any occasion to get physical in a violent way since that day but I worked with a body builder a few years ago and he was telling me how easy it would be for him to kick my butt. He said he would put me in a headlock and crush my skull. I told him that his muscles meant nothing to me and that his headlock wasn't worth a nickel. Just my confident tone shook his confidence. He could tell by my voice that I truly had no fear of him and in about 15 seconds the roles were reversed and he feared me. He knew that confidence like that cannot be bluffed.
I do not want to sound like a braggart here. But BJJ gives you a feeling that no striker can understand. I have met and trained with several of the Gracie's and they will tell you that it is BJJ that is the power. When they beat an opponent they give the credit for the victory to BJJ, not to themselves. That is my purpose here, to thank BJJ for my confidence.
One last note, in the first couple of UFC events, it was only Royce Gracie that looked like a martial artist. Nobody else had incorporated BJJ into their training yet. It really was a fair assessment of the different martial arts. Only Royce did what a martial artist is supposed to do. That is, beat your opponent easily and without sustaining injury to yourself while applying your art. The strikers seemed to lose their focus and became brawlers with the first punch. BJJ must be the premier martial art in the world because no fighter today would enter a tournament without it.