Dick Vemeil seems like an all-around great guy and nice fellow but I'm glad he's gone. Maybe coaches like Lombardi, Tom Landry and Bud Grant were too tough and stoic but we have gone too far in the other direction. Why is it fashionable for men to cry at the drop of a hat and go around higging and kissing 300 lb. sweaty football players. Did you see the sideline affair with Tiki Barber the other night after he had a good game? You'd think he found a cure for cancer. A handshake and a slap on the shouder was always considered adequate. When did Oprah take over sports? I like the old days better.